We are responsible for ourselves, our actions are the only ones that are in our hands to control, and pondering about our own role in different situations is often more practical than fixating on other people. All that is fine and dandy, and still… We don’t live in a vacuum. We are social animals, we are affected by the actions of other people whether we like it or not (and many times we don’t), and people make decisions that affect us that we don’t willingly consent to eit